Bullying is just another part of life, men need to be challenged in order to grow.
Female Nature is to nurture : The feminine creates, maintains, and repairs social bonds by verbalizing emotions, and through nurturing connections.
Male Nature is to challenge : The masculine creates, maintains, and repairs social bonds through challenge, body language, journeying, and truth delivered best with humour. Continue reading
Minimalism – its all over you tube, face book groups,Instagram and pinterest. Getting rid of, letting go, etc etc. The concept is brilliant and yet its more than just throwing out those t shirts you don’t wear and decluttering a drawer every so often. For us it has become a way of life by default. We didn’t sit down and consciously decided to become minimalists. It just sort of happened.
We started travelling. “Stuff” was in storage in two different cities and then we came back to Australia and what to do with all that “stuff”. Well we couldn’t take it to where we were going to live and besides, we were only home to earn some more money so that we could leave the country again, so it wasn’t really worth getting it all out. Continue reading
The Anatomy of Violence : Part 1 – Shame
In this article we will look in depth at the root cause of violence. In it we present why it is shame that we find at the root of it, and then present ways in which professional therapists, specialised in violent behaviour, have come to recognise and address the problem.
Conflict Resolution Method: Talking from the “I”
Conflict is often caused by the language we use, not the subject.
Evolving Through The Karpman Drama Triangle
An Audio Podcast reading of the original version of this blog is also available on Youtube (click here) (This article was first published in 2015 and has been re-posted here with some edits for clarity, so varies slightly from the video version.) Continue reading
The 3 Laws of the Universe
We live by the first law, which is Human Law, we never consider why that is, or even what it really is. Human Law is what puts boundaries around expected behaviour, from ourselves and from others, and even defines what we expect from the world about us. It helps us to function and to explain away reality. Continue reading